Saturday, June 11, 2011

TAKE A CHANCE

women, believe in yourselves.
it's not that you haven't found a good man.  you haven't taken him.  stop worrying about what he wants and how he'll feel about your stretch marks.  believe that you are a beautiful, well rounded and intelligent woman who knows what SHE wants and goes to get it. 


courtship is not like it used to be.  we have to play an active role.  there are plenty of girls giving it up but not enough taking it.  you want a man to be clear with his intentions then be clear with yours.  be open, be communicative, be real with him and yourself.  


you're going to wait forever for a glass slipper when you should have sneakers on for a journey this long.  i'm just saying.


and by the way, to be completely honest, i believe that when i walk into a room, i know that 98% of men in there want me.  the other 2% might be gay, asexual or in a relationship.  but why do i think that 98% of men want me? because i'm beautiful, intelligent well rounded and i wear clothes that fit me well.  so i'll decide which man i want.  i'm not waiting for handouts, a ring or a charmer.  if i want it, i can have it.  


i've heard the 'but i don't know what he wants.'  ladies, he doesn't know what he wants either.  i walked into the store yesterday and i didn't want a red velvet cake but when i saw that sh.t looking so appetizing, i bought all three dollars and ninety five cents that it was worth.  and me and that red velvet cake had a good damn time.  (even when it was over, i still have great memories of it) before you go back and forth on taking a chance on someone else…


TAKE A F.CKING CHANCE ON YOURSELF.

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