my head is pounding

relationships are mirrors to who we are when we're in them. sometimes they get hectic, crazy, painful while other times are simply perfection in motion. wherever you stand in your relationship, STAND. do not let it knock you down. but don't for a minute think that i'm telling you to let your pride get in the way. sometimes, you have to get down on our knees and not in the nasty way. sometimes you have to humble yourself to the situation and the person you love. sometimes you have to let go to hold on. it's not easy, it's not fun but before you make the easy decisions or even the hard ones, make the necessary ones. calculate your risk and value your reward. just because you may consider your significant other the perfect man/woman, that doesn't necessarily mean they are perfect for you. and on the other hand, even perfect people don't make a perfect relationship. it takes work, it takes time, it takes patience, it takes a conscious effort to make a relationship work. there is no time for gray areas, there is no time for cruelty. either get it together or let someone else have a try at it.