i bet you think this is about you

i don't like to argue.
whether i'm wrong or i'm right, i think it's tacky.
and to be frank, a lot of people don't even do it well.
they bypass the facts to make snide remarks or say some foul sh.t and then when it's done, well it's never done.
the point is this.
i don't like to argue.
i'd rather you think you have a victory than engage in a cause i don't believe in.
some people like to argue. 
some people like to break up to make up.
some people like drama with the people closest to them.
i'm not one of those people.
i'm too busy fighting everyone else that i'd rather not fight with those whom i consider my safe haven.
but i was told i have a rare mind.
and i believe that to be true.
even in the moments i can step outside of myself to understand what someone else is trying to say to me, i RARELY, if EVER say anything negative to them.
i think that sh.t is tacky too.
so when someone says something negative in the middle of an argument i shouldn't even be having, the facts are not even up for debate anymore your character is and that's a pity.
i would rather not say anything than say something negative.
because people won't always remember what you said, but they'll never forget how you made them feel.