raunchy might work for you.

have you sent naughty pictures? don't answer that on the blog. i fear for your political career. but the reason i ask is because with men and women logging in so many hours at work, we literally have to squeeze in time for our relationships.  at least if you're in america because in europe, leisure is time well spent. but seriously what once seemed so taboo is now the trend. sex tapes, sexting, all ways to keep the male mind, which is visually stimulated, entertained and intrigued.  even though i have been dubbed the 'prude' in my close circle of friends, well every circle actually, it is a badge i wear proudly.  i keep my 'over the top, completely vulnerable' goodies LOCKED away until i'm so deep in that relationship, i can't see my way out. and that's only happened once. so back to being a prude.

i do get all the hoopla about sending naked pics or raunchy text messages because they can always fall into the wrong hands. and i completely agree that the price to pay is often one we cannot afford. however, when someone is so deep into another person that they are willing to take that risk, is it really wrong?  are you really thinking about the repercussions then? for instance, what if the person u love is four states away? he's at work, she's at work. both of y'all are trying to remain monogamous and interested. what do you do? suddenly a picture in your panties is not so bad. and then another picture and another until you're sure that he's going to sleep with your breasts, hips and ass on his mind. everyone knows a stray dog is simply a hungry one. feed him and he'll come back home.  so if you resort to raunchy communication to maintain communication, i'm not mad because someone said that 'love is giving someone everything they need to destroy and trusting that they won't.'